You know, one of the great things about being me is that I’m double-jointed in both my shoulders.
Besides the fact that a lot of arm locks don’t work on me and you can’t keep my hands tied behind my back, the most important advantage this gives me is in cuddling.
It seems like there is an eternal “what do you do with your other arm?” problem for most big-spoons in the world. One over your SO, the other one… wedged uncomfortably somewhere?
I just dislocated it, and it winds up under a pillow, my, or Lauren’s head.
I guess this sounds uncomfortable? It’s not though, I usually sleep with at least one arm dislocated most nights. I don’t really think about it, popping my shoulders in and out of their sockets doesn’t actually require any effort, it’s just how I get comfy.
Sometimes this grosses people out?